Human Corrals: When engaging public transportation to and from school or work, one will likely cross paths with many familiar but unknown opposite-sex people. The risk of others eventually taking notice of one sexually is high, and vice versa. For any commuter types, the first piece of preventative advice includes the avoidance of consuming alcohol along the way, for example on a plane or train bar car. As for avoiding any lengthy conversations, that is charm-oriented spend presentations in these close quarters scenarios, the use of an iPod and earphones is highly recommended here as well.
Wearing clothes that cover one’s private part, midriff and thigh flesh, not to mention undergarments in all life positions and conditions is advised, especially when given no choice but to sit in those “conversational” four-to-six person, face-to-face seating arrangements. Above-the-knee skirt-wearing commuters might opt to stand rather than provide that type of straight-line view to fellow commuters. That helps manage unintended sex presentations and associated engagement risks.
Whether commuting or not, when traveling through any plane, train, ferry or bus terminal one might find some time to kill before the next scheduled departure. Sitting down at a table instead of at the terminal bar is highly efficient in preventing unsolicited opposite-sex interactions. While time is usually somewhat limited, ending up on the same plane, train, ferry or bus is a larger possibility than one realizes and should never be discounted.
Once boarding, one’s seat assignment or selection could make the difference in whether one is going to be engaged by a member of the opposite sex who is either sexually interested or interesting, or both. If one does participate in any form of isolated conversation with a person seated nearby, things can get heated up quickly—especially if one’s flesh or intimate apparel is spilling out while using those overhead storage bins or bending over to retrieve something from one’s bag stored under the seat. So planning ahead on how best to keep it all secret is the key, unless of course one is in the mood to be sexually engaged.
However, when sexually unavailable, it would be safest to keep it all covered, along with keeping it simple conversation-wise, making it clear one is officially spoken for. Furthermore, just because they were attractive or sweet, there is no obligation whatsoever to exchange anything but one’s first name when asked for a kiss or hug goodbye, let alone any type of contact call info.
As a regular train commuter myself, I have made some friends along the way, not to mention run into a few sexual encounters, even with females who were not sexually available at the time. When conversing with them or just overhearing others speak about what they have been up to, many seem to only mention their boyfriend/girlfriend or husband/wife—but never use an actual name. A prevention measure in these situations is to always use the first name of one’s not-present partner when discussing them. Think about it.